Back in the pre-Covid days, I once ran a short course in networking with researchers at the University of Glasgow. We had some fun, they picked up some useful techniques and strategies and we role-played joining a group of people we didn’t know. Afterwards, one person stayed behind and spoke about how hard she found […]
Confidence
From Self-Doubt to Imposter Syndrome
What is Imposter Syndrome? “How can anybody believe I can do this?” “I’ve no right to be here” “I’m going to get found out” “I’m an imposter!” It is a rare person who does not experience anxieties and self-doubt, sometimes, in some situations, at some time in their lives. Anxiety and stress can occur in […]
Women getting their voices heard??
This has happened to far too many of my women clients in voicebusiness. Has it ever happened to you? Hint: It’s not the women who need to change, but the gender biased culture!
‘Make me feel important’ : Be more confident building relationships
Probably the two best pieces of advice I’ve ever heard about how to get on with other people – in business or in life – are these. 1. ‘To be interesting is to be interested’. Dale Carnegie 2. “I have learned to imagine an invisible sign around each person’s neck that says, ‘Make me […]
Get those kids performing!
When we were running training in the room with people, I ran a presentations skills course with a group of pretty tough salespeople – the kind who view ‘soft skills’ with a certain degree of scepticism. Yet within this group were two people who already had a head start on most presenters. One person had a voice which was rich […]
How much of our time do we spend worrying about what other people think of us?
How often does it occur to you? Do you think about what others will think when you plan what to put on when attending a meeting or, more likely nowadays, when appearing on a Zoom call? Do you worry how you come over during an online meeting? Are you afraid to speak up in case […]